Shahida Aroby: `Life is a race, so you have to struggle `there is no one who can deny that, he /she didn`t listen this kind of advice. May be you listen this several time throughout your life and its become a traditional way to make children strong or guide them to stay on right track of life. Everyone is too busy for becoming someone else. We always want to be the person, who is the best in our perspective. May be his/ her lifestyle or great achievement attracts us and we start to follow them. Our elders always give advice and suggest us to read the lifestyle of the person who struggle and cross the milestone of success. It creats an image in our subconscious mind and try to be someone else. But the question is, If we try to be like the rest, when will we be like ourselves? Shouldn`t it mandatory to be the person, which he/she wants to be?

Life is a full or action; we just perform as different character. According to our age, life introduces us with these charecter, sometimes we are treated as a child or sometimes we take the responsibility to others child. Life goes on and we consider that it`s a rule to lead the lifestyle or something. And never though that, there is a world above everything. Passing lifetime in a traditional way that you have seen around, cannot provide the proper taste of life. Make something different that can charms your life or allay your all sorrow of life.

There is a proverb that` Time and tide wait for none.` That`s true. When death is the ultimate ending of life, so utilizing time is only responsible response to our life. So the question is how can we utilize our life that bring some of happiness also the charms of life. Though it will depands on man to man but still you have to find your comfort area. Leading life and taking responsibility are not easy. But do something meaningful, make a routine in your daily activities. It can refresh your mind and can also give the new speed in your daily activities.

Take a deep breath. Make a journey. Make sure you have to go out of your comfort zone. You always see your life from your comfort zone for that it might be hard or the cause of discomfort when you want to go out of it, but it makes you perfect for life. Also helps you to realize that life is not so easy that we think or image. The reality is more difficult. Make your focus more wide and break all the limitations of your life. Do something out of plan and give a chance to cheer your own life.

Explore everything and gain knowledge. That will make you wise. Stay Hungary about experiences of life, that creats interest to explore something new. You have to fight to survive but at the same time you have to have some exiting story of life that you can tell to others at the end of the day. Its a blessing that you have utilized your time. Undoubtedly it will give feelings that are priceless. So before preparing ownself jobs or business, keep another plan to refresh your mind. Happiness will knock at your door.

Being Doctor, Engineering or BCS Cadre is not everything of life. You can treat people as the way you want, you can serve the needy whose actually need helps. So change the perspective of life. Think out of the syllabus. Learn for your own sake and spread the knowledge among others. There is abundance of path, that you can choose to make a explorious life. But at the same time you have to be adept at dealing with your own life. Because based on your decision of passing life, will oveiously change the lifestyle you lead.   So remove your debility, find your strength. Take your life a step further and make an exultant life. Fly as high as you want, make sure you should not precise your limitations, make it as wide as sky.

Author: Shahida Aroby is a columnist and student of Department of English and Modern languages at North South University, Dhaka.