Mohammad Iqbal Hossain

Among the planets discovered in the solar system, life has yet to be found on a planet called Earth. According to scientists, the creation of the planet Earth is about 4.540.05 billion years from today, the origin of life on the planet is about 3.55 billion years and the evolution of human beings is only 200,000 years ago. Which scientists have termed as modern man. Unknown, Discovered-Undiscovered, Mathematical-Countless, Nameless-Anonymous, Known-Unknown, Quiet-Violent, Wild-Pet, Beneficial-Harmful, Beneficial-Harmful Ashraful Makhlukat is a creature full of consciousness, capable of expressing emotions in language which is called in the language of Islam. Insan in Arabic, human in English, humaine in French, menschlichen in German and man in Bengali.

Man is so enveloped by some human qualities that the qualities or conditions that distinguish man from the animal will prove that he is man, revealing the existence of man. How many characteristics will people possess that will be inherited from one person to another and will not change in any way by gender, caste, religion, culture. People will desire and try to fulfill it. Man will grow mentally, he will have consciousness, he will have judgment, he will be able to think and he will be able to express his emotions in clear language to make them understandable. These are some of the basic differences between animals and humans.

From the moment a person is born, he gets an acquaintance, he has a name, he has a father, he has a mother. In society, the child receives some education as he grows up. As a social being, human beings continue to have characteristics. If he grows up in the forest he learns to behave like an animal we know as Tarzan. In the absence of society, Tarzan is deprived of his mental qualities, becomes biologically human and fails to become a real human being. Those who grow up in the society, at some stage, get formal education by enrolling in a specific institution to learn how to read, try to transform themselves into real people. Some people become famous in the world without any formal education and become famous in the world, die in the world. However, we do not assume that formal education is necessary to develop oneself as a real person. Through family and institutional education, I lay the foundation for building myself as an ideal person. Besides, in order to build the mind, we take shelter in different ways on different subjects. I am not involved in various religions, some are meditative, some are musical, some are saints, some are singers, some are Bauls, some are monks and I spend my whole life trying to bring peace of mind.

Education is, peace is found, now it needs to be expanded. I participate in various activities to expand myself. I try to be extraordinary in order to develop myself as an exceptional person. I try to express myself as an economist, anthropologist, mathematician, naturalist, sociologist or politician. The main purpose of making oneself exceptional is to make one immortal, to keep oneself alive among others through action. The conviction to keep oneself beyond one`s limits and to be infinite.

Even though the destination of fame, glory, fame has been found, we have failed to set the limits of happiness even today. Make yourself happy. But no one knows how to be happy. No one can define happiness. We are all combining happiness like everyone else. We are desperate to establish our position. I am so blinded by the fascination of the world that blindness is separating me from my ethnic identity and transforming me from one person to another. In the language of biology, a person with a straight and erect body structure including hands, feet, nose, mouth, nose, ears, throat, abdomen, if he has the power of thought, speech and understanding, then he is very strong. Then we need to verify whether we are just human beings or really human beings. Universal definitions of certain subjects are required. Beautiful-ugly, happiness-sorrow, joy-pain, good-evil, demand-lack, receipt-deficit, all these adjectives need a neutral explanation, need a neutral definition. What is ugly to me, sorrow, pain, lack, need, can be beautiful, happiness, joy, attainment to others. Environmental conditions change over time. Today, the pain for the Palestinians is a joy for Israel, the gain for the Middle East is a loss for Asia. Murder to the murderer is as much an irreparable loss to the victim`s family as his earnings. Rape is a pleasure for a demon, but it is a cry for loss of integrity for rape. The matter to consider is in fact the state of mind and environment. In fact, in order to define happiness, joy, deprivation, demand, receipt, pain, profit and loss universally, interests and motives need to be considered first. It can be universal only if it can bring happiness, peace and prosperity without any deviation from the interests of others and without any kind of malicious intent.

Today there is a great lack of real people. The earth is moving forward, the whole planet is being brought under control by reducing the distance, all activities are being facilitated by reducing physical labor, the whole world is being brought under close circuit by capturing the camera, the heavy is being made light, the distant is being controlled near, the eye is controlled The whole world is being done. Germs are being used instead of gunpowder; waves are being used instead of cable. But what is the world really getting; I am what we are getting? We are all victims of hatred, sin, curses and blood feuds. Is institutional, family education teaching us this from age to age, from century to century? With the blessings of all modernity, all civilization, we are drifting away from our basic values ​​and transforming from human to animal without the knowledge of the mind.

About four thousand two hundred religions have been found in the world. There are about six and a half thousand languages. All religions have the same mantra, the same message. Always speak the truth, killing animals is a great sin, respect the elders, have mercy on orphans, refrain from sinful deeds is common in all religions. In the same way, all languages ​​have the same purpose - proper communication, expression of feelings and emotions is the main function of language. The origin of words varies according to the country, nation, religion and caste. Although the word dhemki is used in Bengali, its use is not observed in French. However, the words beautiful, good, moral, abominable, right-wrong, true-false, sin-virtue can be found in all languages. All language groups use these words. If these things exist in all religions, in all castes, in all languages, then why are there so many differences between us, why there are so many obstacles to being real good people, why there is so much crisis.

All societies, all states, all religions, castes, clans, all texts, all constitutions, all schools, colleges, universities, laboratories, all temples, mosques, churches, pagodas, if the purpose is the same, to each other, to each other as real good people. Build, but why are we so barbaric, why so vicious, why so cruel, why so violent-brutal-bloodthirsty. Why do we make ourselves so ruthless, uncivilized, uncivilized, wicked, corrupt, defiled, why become so brutal-crew. Why not build yourself from a real good person to a human being.

Almost everything that exists on earth has been discovered by various standards. With which we easily measure the level or skill of almost everything in daily life. Through the test method we determine the pass-fail after education as well as rich-poor with poverty line, standard of living with GDP, alcohol addiction with breathalyzer, body weight with eye scale, temperature with thermometer, heartbeat with stethoscope or spongometer with spongma There are systems but we have invented meters to verify good people in the society. What we will measure is how good we really are. I judge a bunch of faults, attitudes, behaviors, speech and behavior by indicating them in a very simple language. Therefore, with the highest priority, the nation, the religion, the caste, the tribe, the state government, the country, the continent, the blacks, the whites must forget all the differences and transform themselves into the universal form of a new existence.

In order to develop ourselves as a real human being, we need to practice some things constantly, we need to acquire some qualities-

Always think positive - always think positive thoughts to get rid of negative thoughts. There is nothing impossible, everything is possible if you try, all you need is your will power, enthusiasm and planning.

Take things in stride and try not focus too much on the problem. First identify your weaknesses such as self-centeredness, selfishness, purity, complexity, roughness, roughness, intrigue, and gradually avoid them one by one. One day you too will become a pure true man. Identify an ideal person with good qualities, keep following. It could be our beloved Prophet Hazrat Mohammad (PBUH), take a picture of such an ideal person in your mind, and assume he is your ideal, now you continue to follow him.

Smile a lot, always try to keep your mind cheerful, talk with a smile - maybe a colleague may be a stranger, maybe a stranger seen on the street.

Build yourself up as a volunteer. Self-motivated every day, at least some time to voluntarily use others. One day you will enjoy the joy of volunteerism is so sweet. Build yourself as a donor. What you donate is not a big deal. If nothing is possible, donate food, clothes, money, even if it is a good time, which can help others in one way or another. Think about what you did for others, don`t magnify what you got yourself.

Give love instead of hate. The Creator has created in the midst of all things considering any benefit or good. Express love not hate, maybe apparently the cause of the hateful creation is unknown to me.

Avoid artificiality. Imagine that no one is 100% complete, express what you have, if there is a deficit, do your best. Don`t stop yourself, think that this society is looking at you; you have a lot to do here, tell yourself that you are the highest contributor in the society. You become an active member of your society. Buy something from a local seller; let him know you are one of them. Be interested in using local things. Eliminate foreign products.

Be kind to animals. Those who are carnivores express gratitude to the animal, imagine that the animal has given its life for your enjoyment. Give someone something to love. Maybe he doesn`t deserve what he`s giving. Give something as a gift that will help you remember. Establish yourself as a discerning person. It is not true that everyone knows everything, everyone will do everything. Assume that the person who made the mistake has done it with his / her maximum discretionary power. Maybe it is unacceptable to you or you are aware of the health. Health is the root of all happiness. Without good physical and mental health, you will not be able to do any work. So be more careful about your health. Increase thinking and knowledge. Read lots of books, study, try to know the unknown. Build yourself up as an informant.

Express good manners, wish someone well and have a positive attitude. Use the words sorry, sorry, please, thank you, welcome, etc. Leave the seat for the other. Open the door to help each other, greet first, and love the children. Let the other person know how much you love him. Say that you look beautiful today, your dressup is beautiful; your bag is all work, express gratitude. Introduce yourself as a good friend. Express your mistakes, do not try to establish mistakes by force.

Learn to work hard, think about the hardships of those who work hard. Increase your self-confidence.

If there is a distance between the parents in the family, keep reducing it, keep loving, make yourself acceptable to the parents as the best and best child. Establish yourself as a good brother and sister among the brothers and sisters, a good parent to the child. Build a good friendship by sharing happiness and sorrow. Know that parents have spent half of their lives behind you so you should keep the last part of their life well through your service.

Try to be forgiving. If you get upset or angry with someone, ask them to leave in front of you, calm yourself down, and keep thinking that forgiveness is better than anger or resentment. Forgive him for forgetting the emotion and give him a chance to atone.

Introduce yourself as a reliable friend in the circle of friends. Take the help of friends in your needs. If someone ask you for something, try to fill it, give time if you want, reply if you give a letter, reply when you send an email, receive it when you call. If you are unable to receive a telephone call due to busy schedule, you should call and search for opportunities as you may not know that someone asked for your help.

Try to unite with the emotions and feelings of others. Remember that no relationship can be built without the ability to be self-sacrificing.

Set goals for maximum excellence. Try to get a good ending to what you start. Change the goal; try to change the subject from not always sticking to the same subject. Try to cross the boundary; you have to break the boundaries to create something new. To get the best possible item that will help you increase your ability.

Understand anything and then try to be predictable. Refrain from blindly listening or reading. Accept the task with your own feelings and perceptions, realizing and determining the correctness of the matter. Remember the best judge of good and evil is your own conscience.

Make yourself look neutral and impartial. Refrain from commenting on someone who is invisible to others. Always express a non-discriminatory opinion. Refrain yourself from making negative predictions about anyone or anything in advance. Always establish justice with your conscience.

Try to be truthful and trustworthy. Try to do something to the best of your ability. Avoid giving false assurances to anyone. Try to be committed. Be respectful of your own achievements and the promises of others.

Build yourself hardworking and efficient. Remember there is no shortcut to improvement; you have to work hard to climb the ladder of improvement. Try to learn something new every day. Keep increasing the interest in learning. Enrich what you already know. Always sharpen your knowledge, try to make yourself more efficient.

Try to make yourself adaptable, flexible and versatile. Remember- rigidity is a kind of disability. Keep yourself flexible, it will give you strength and ability to adapt to any environment.

Become an adventurer. Do what you never did, think of yourself as brave, and learn to take risks. Remember life means risk, life means thrill. Face everything with fearlessness and courage. Deal with fear with courage, with conviction.

Try to be frank and open-minded. Always make yourself amiable, outspoken. Express what you have in mind clearly and fearlessly. Simple hurt is much sweeter than receiving complexly, remember সু obvious hate is happier than vague love.

Get interested. Try to overcome fear and become a winner. Think-born only with some feelings and desires and will go back with consciousness and feelings. So conquer fear, increase your self-confidence, show interest in everything.

Develop the habit of honesty. Be aware that being dishonest is only a matter of the moment where you have to curb thousands of greed to be honest. Better a poor horse than no horse at all.

Try to be prudent. In your decision, consider the interests and well-being of others in your actions. Think of your decision as not to cause great harm to others. Avoid narrow mindedness and seclusion. Involve yourself in the work of others. If anyone is asking for your help, extend your hand of cooperation.

Practice "Golden Roll" and "Silver Roll". Treat others as you would like to be treated, and refrain from doing things yourself that others would hurt you to do. Only one habit can change your lifestyle if you can absorb it with regular practice.

Author: Mohammad Iqbal Hossain is theAdditional Deputy Commissioner of Police at DMP.